I am able to be fairly accommodating when it comes to my schedule, but booking in advance is a great way to guarantee a spot on my books. I love a man who plans, and there’s nothing hotter to me than knowing our excitement has been building over days, weeks, months…

I don’t usually book same-day appointments, but it never hurts to ask.

I have always found a lot of joy and self-expression through fashion. I want to show up to dates as authentic as I can be, and part of this includes dressing in ways that feel comfortable and natural for me. Because of this, I would like to politely decline outfit requests in general. However, if you’ve seen anything you like in my ads, on X, or on here, I’d be happy to wear that for you so long as I still have those items.

I also understand that certain dates may require a dress code. I’m happy to fit my outfit to match the occasion in these cases, and appreciate examples of the types of clothing that would be appropriate. I have a limited closet currently, as I’m still replacing my wardrobe after a house fire, so I always appreciate being sent funds to purchase a new outfit for special occasions.

I consider myself to be fairly adventurous. I love being active and trying new things. I love hiking, trying new restaurants/bars, going to movies or plays, concerts, cooking classes, art museums, just to name a few things.

Some things I would really like to do SOON: Apple picking, going to the Minnesota Zoo, walking around Como Park Conservatory, a visit to the Walker Art Center with drinks/dinner at Cardamom afterwards, catching a show at the Guthrie Theater, a trip to Duluth/the North Shore.

Some restaurants I would like to try: Caspian Bistro, Khaluna, Bucheron, or your own personal favorite!

Generally, up to 24 hours during the week, and on Monday if you sent a message between Friday-Sunday. I live what I call a “low-tech” lifestyle, in that I try to remain off screens except for during working hours. My personal phone does not even have access to email or the internet to truly allow me to be present in my own life. During the week I generally try to check my work phone a few times throughout the day.

If I don’t get back to you within a couple of days, I don’t mind you reaching back out to nudge me! Emails and texts do sometimes get lost, and polite follow ups are always appreciated.

I never expect you to bring anything except for the session fee and your lovely self, but you are always welcome to bring unopened drinks and snacks or anything else you might want to enjoy during our time together. I love wine, especially reds. I have a strong sweet tooth, and desserts of all kinds are savored. I love learning new card games, so a deck is always a wonderful thing to bring. In terms of snacks I prefer things which are fresh such as fruit or vegetables, but I'll never say no to chips or popcorn.

As for extra pampering, I adore flowers, but please make sure the arrangement you’ve chosen is cat safe! I also will accept Watershed Spa gift cards as well as Sephora gift cards. For jewelry, I prefer gold, especially more minimal pieces. I sometimes update my wishlist here. Donations to SWOP Minneapolis and Planned Parenthood are also appreciated.

Please do not post any intimate details of our time together on any sort of website or forum. You may post about my professionalism, discretion, booking experience, photo accuracy/looks, as well as my overall vibe/personality. Overall, I feel reviews run contrary to the experience I try to provide, as each encounter is meant to be unique to us and cherished privately. I adore men who can distinguish for themselves what is for them and what isn’t.

Discretion runs both ways. If you would like to use me as a reference with another provider, please give me a heads up first.

Nerves are completely natural! It’s my job, while you’re with me, to put you at ease. However, I know that getting to that point where we’re face-to-face can be the hardest part.

Research will make you feel more confident if you’ve never seen a companion before. I recommend this Reddit post as a quick overview on choosing a safe provider. If you feel comfortable doing so, please let me know that it’s your first time seeing a provider; honesty about our experiences and emotions are always the best way to work towards a delightful shared experience.

If it takes you more time to warm up to someone, I offer social dates for this express purpose! Social dates are $300/hr, for a maximum of 3 hours. We can grab a drink, coffee, get dinner, or even just take a stroll around a park… Anything public will work!

Thinking about doing a FMTY with me but unsure if we’ll get along? We can do a virtual social date for the same rate stated above.

I will not respond to any messages of a sexual or suggestive manner. However, if you have questions of a discreet nature that would help to put you at ease with me, please feel free to email or text. I do ask that your messages be to-the-point and one-off, as a back and forth exchange is usually indicative of someone who does not have a serious intent to book. For messages that include more detailed responses, or require more messages, sending a tip will indicate respect and appreciation for my time.

Your deposit secures your time. Because I am a low volume provider, I only take a certain number of clients a day/week. This means that I can be very flexible and accommodating for my clients and show up to each date with energy and attention. It also means that cancellations and no-shows are devastating to me, both financially and in the time lost to coordinating details, and are unfair to clients potentially turned away because of lack of availability. Your deposit shows me that you are serious and excited about our date. Deposits are non-negotiable; they protect my energy so that I’m able to be my best self for each client. Deposits will only be refunded in the very rare case that I have to cancel.

I delete emails containing sensitive information as soon as I no longer need them, and regularly delete email/text threads. I never save personal information to any device. To further protect your privacy, I suggest contacting me via ProtonMail, an end-to-end encrypted email service.