Frequently asked questions
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I am able to be fairly accommodating when it comes to my schedule, but booking in advance is a great way to guarantee a spot on my books. I love a man who plans, and there’s nothing hotter to me than knowing our excitement has been building over days, weeks, months…
I don’t usually book same-day appointments, but it never hurts to ask.
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I have always found a lot of joy and self-expression through fashion. I want to show up to dates as authentic as I can be, and part of this includes dressing in ways that feel comfortable and natural for me. Because of this, I would like to politely decline outfit requests. However, if you’ve seen anything you like in my ads, on X, or on here, I’d be happy to wear that for you so long as I still have those items.
I also understand that certain dates may require a dress code. I’m happy to fit my outfit to match the occasion in these cases, and appreciate examples of the types of clothing that would be appropriate. I have a limited closet currently, as I’m still replacing my wardrobe after a house fire, so I always appreciate being sent funds to purchase a new outfit for special occasions.
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I’m an active person who loves to explore and try new things, so finding activities we both can enjoy should be easy. I love when a man brings me in on something he knows a lot about or that excites him, so I always loved to hear your ideas.
As far as activities I lean towards - I love hiking, trying new restaurants/bars, going to movies or plays, concerts, cooking classes, spa days, and art museums.
Some restaurants I would like to try: Caspian Bistro, Khaluna, Bucheron, or your own personal favorite!
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I aim to respond to inquiries within 24 hours. Occasionally, I take time off and leave my work phone at home, and in those cases it may take me longer to respond. I will typically announce these short breaks on X or Bluesky.
If I don’t get back to you within a couple of days, I don’t mind you reaching back out to nudge me! Emails and texts do sometimes get lost, and polite follow ups are always appreciated. Please note that I only respond to correspondences which indicate a serious intent to book with me.
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I never expect you to bring anything except for the session fee and your lovely self, but you are always welcome to bring unopened drinks and snacks or anything else you might want to enjoy during our time together.
To drink, I love wine, beer, cocktails, sparkling water, prebiotic soda, and kombucha. In terms of snacks I prefer things which are fresh such as fruit or vegetables, but I also love chips (salt and vinegar or Voodoo) and popcorn.
As for extra pampering, I adore flowers, but please make sure the arrangement you’ve chosen is cat safe! You can also mail flowers to my house via Social Flowers. For jewelry, I prefer well crafted gold pieces. For lingerie, I love Agent Provocateur or Lounge. If you’re gifting clothing/lingerie, please check with me for sizing. I try to avoid overconsumption and waste, so please be extremely intentional when gifting me items and ensure that they are of high-quality and ethical sources. Checking my wishlist is the best way to ensure that I adore your gift.
Donations to SWOP Minneapolis and Planned Parenthood are also appreciated.
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Your deposit secures your time. Because I am a low volume provider, I only take a certain number of clients a day/week. This means that I can be very flexible and accommodating for my clients and show up to each date with energy and attention. It also means that cancellations and no-shows are devastating to me, both financially and in the time lost to coordinating details, and are unfair to clients potentially turned away because of lack of availability. Your deposit shows me that you are serious and excited about our date. Deposits are non-negotiable; they protect my energy so that I’m able to be my best self for each client. Deposits will only be refunded in the very rare case that I have to cancel.
I delete emails containing sensitive information as soon as I no longer need them, and regularly delete email/text threads. I never save personal information to any device. To further protect your privacy, I suggest contacting me via ProtonMail, an end-to-end encrypted email service.
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References are a courtesy, not an expectation. In most cases, I am willing to give you up to two references. The proper etiquette is to ask me prior to giving my information to a third party, as well as sending a small tip. I would never share any information about you or meeting with you without your permission, and I ask that you do the same.